'I dont want my ego to increase.' she said.
I found myself giving her maa-behen ki galis, those which I have stopped using since I became a mum.
Ramesh has done a better, calmer job :
'No personal effort can possibly lead to Enlightenment', he says. 'On the contrary, what is nessessary is to rest helplessly in beingness, knowing we are nothing, to be in the nothing-mind state in which all conceptualising has subsided into passive witnessing. In this state whatever happens will not be our doing, but the pure Universal functioning to which we have releinquished all control.'